Ruthless Love: God’s Plan

I’ve talked about living in the South as an Asian guy, but I don’t think I’ve ever focused solely on the “Bible Belt” aspect– especially when it comes to dating. Religion embeds itself in the speech down in Arkansas. You get a whole variety of different reactionary phrases: Good heavens! Bless her heart. I’ll beContinue reading “Ruthless Love: God’s Plan”

Lessons in Dating

Getting dates (or even just getting close to almost having dates) is an awesome rush of a feeling. But for most of my life I couldn’t process it that way. Before, I would never imagine myself being able to take my misadventures in stride. 

I was all serious business, and I didn’t know how to stop. I didn’t know how to crack the code. I never felt like I knew what signs to look for.

So looking back, I’d tell my old self…